
CyGuru Parenting Code
Parenting involves the repeated experience of being a person while being responsible for another person. This title opens questions about boundaries, example and the expectations adults bring into their relationship with a child.
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Read with attention to the particular child and context rather than a fantasy of perfect control. A principle becomes useful when it clarifies how you respond, explain and repair; it should not require children to carry responsibility for adult emotions.
A question to explore before reading
What does your child learn from how you respond after you make a mistake?
Keep this question alongside your own experience as you compare the perspectives in the library.
Explore the subject first.
These original journal essays offer a way into related questions.
A perspective for your reading
Read with attention to the particular child and context rather than a fantasy of perfect control. A principle becomes useful when it clarifies how you respond, explain and repair; it should not require children to carry responsibility for adult emotions.
A question to carry into the book
Continue this line of inquiry with The Relationship Code. What happens repeatedly between you that neither person has yet described clearly?
Build your next reading connection
- The Relationship Code — Relationships are made of recurring interactions as much as defining moments.
- CyGuru Psychology of SEX — Sex can carry meanings that are not immediately visible in the act itself: acceptance, reassurance, status, closeness or escape.
- THE FAMILY CODE — A family passes on more than explicit advice.

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