THE FAMILY CODE
A family passes on more than explicit advice. Routines, roles and responses to disagreement can teach expectations that no one remembers agreeing to. The Family Code opens a way to examine those inherited arrangements.
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Read with curiosity about particular patterns rather than a need to identify a single guilty person. The goal of reflection can be to choose which practices deserve continuity and which agreements need to be made differently in the present.
A question to explore before reading
What does your family repeatedly teach through behavior rather than through words?
Keep this question alongside your own experience as you compare the perspectives in the library.
Explore the subject first.
These original journal essays offer a way into related questions.
The Morning After the Argument Is Part of the Argument
What a Family Teaches Without Saying: Parenting, Boundaries and RepairA perspective for your reading
Read with curiosity about particular patterns rather than a need to identify a single guilty person. The goal of reflection can be to choose which practices deserve continuity and which agreements need to be made differently in the present.
A question to carry into the book
Continue this line of inquiry with CyGuru Parenting Code. What does your child learn from how you respond after you make a mistake?
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